I find this useful, but in the past few days, I have felt rather lost again. To be honest, and I have been desperate to figure out what my tender is. I have taken to Google again before I knew I fell down the rabbit hole in researching all of the different genders, and there are a lot of them
Charlie Olivieri
@Charlieri · 1:56
Hi, Tasha. Thank you for this. It's funny. I was actually just about to post something about being non binary, and this kind of has opened up the topic a bit more for me. Yeah. I think it's really interesting the way that we want to identify with other nonbinary people when we have defined ourselves as not in the two main categories, which we have been taught so much about for our entire life. Yeah. I think we need to embrace the diversity within that
Tasha Frank
@NLOFrank · 2:15
And then in this one, these characteristics and what you would look like and like, when you break out of that, it's like, well, what are the rules out here? So, yeah, thank you. I really resonate with what you were saying. Actually, it really does feel like that I definitely know that I'm not in the binary, but, yeah, I'm now getting this kind of image of these two boxes
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Sontaia Briggs
@PKBriggs · 2:45
And then all this other stuff is about other people being able to understand what they see in money and senses and marketing and all these types of things versus just two humans who are together. And it works. I don't know. So that's what I was thinking, and that's what you ultimately got back to, which is yourself, which is, I don't have to put a bow on this
Tasha Frank
@NLOFrank · 4:05
And then it creates some of the stuff that we're seeing in society. And you mentioned specifically around, like toxic masculinity and patriarchy like so many people. And you use the example of CIS men. So I will use that example as well as for continuity. A lot of this toxic masculinity and patriarchy has come about because men have been basically fast that this is the way you have to be and you have to present like this in order to be a man in society