It's a simplistic nature of communicating because you don't want people to not be able to remember what you've said. If you overcomplicate, they're never going to be able to retain this after you've told them. And lastly are consequences, which aren't exactly consequences of the person who violates your boundaries, but it's mostly explaining the emotional parts that happen when people don't respect your boundaries to you and thereby saying, look, I have to be respected
Darlene Williams
@DSWDSW00 · 0:58
But sometimes I don't stick to my boundary limits or the boundary limits of others. It gets me in trouble. So I think that's an area and a topic that I would like to work on personally
Bo Freeman
@MHNmaven · 4:13
When these things are discussed with me, it makes me uncomfortable and it starts affecting my mental health or my emotional health or whatever it is that it does that you don't want to speak about that and that is your boundary and they will respect it then. So that's kind of the steps in order to set those boundaries. I probably should have made that a little clear. So hopefully this little excerpt makes it a little more clear for you
As a learning disabled woman, I busted my buns to get and specialize my credential. In my teaching credential, I have two, but one of them. So again, it's a bit tough for me at times to find a tactful way to bring up the subject of boundaries in terms of professional and how to work as a team
I guess in a sense, it's a practice, it's an exercise, it's something that you have to practice and implement every day and not give up on. So thank you so much for shining light on this. And I now have more better idea and understanding on possibly how to support my family member who would really benefit from setting some of these intellectual boundaries with particular family members in our family and would benefit from it so much. So thank you so much for hearing me out