And I made them love muffins, which is something I do, and I hadn't really thought about it, but I hadn't baked muffins since the kiddo passed, and it's one of the ways I show love. I bake. I don't know specifically muffins. I make soup. And then I went to Acupuncture. My wife and I both are doing it today. And, yeah, it's going to be emotional, but it also feels good
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 3:20
Although I do have my godson passed and I sat with his family. I still do. I mean, it was incredibly horrible. 21 years old and no words. No words came at that point. But now there's tons of words. We are all filled with words because we remind ourselves of his words when we speak. But in the beginning, there was just the feels like you say. Anyway, I know the pain just tangentially, but nothing to do with your pain
And we were just talking about it yesterday, and I feel like there's a lot there's all kinds of things we could be grieving something in our life that happened unexpectedly, but we can also be grieving something that we have chosen the ending of that we still get attached. And even if something is time to move on or something's unhealthy or whatever, there still can be there's still a lot of feeling and wrapping our head around things. And the body I have found for me is huge
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
And my daughter B, who we lost, she really like that, really. She really absorbed a lot of that and saw that as really that felt like very individual love to her, I think. And then she adopted it herself, where she would make playlists and get on Spotify and make them for herself and her friends