Wesley Willis
@weswillis · 5:00
What works about Polyamory
Having someone you call your significant other gives you strength and courage in an unkind world. It's a crown worn on the head as an achievement and should be cherished. Having someone my opening statement in this segment pondered society's idea of a committed relationship. Well, it turns out that the only generally accepted route to meeting our eroticism while preserving nurturance needs is through a committed monogamous relationship
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 2:54
I think it's my generation, my age, but I don't think bringing in new energy in the bedroom is anything remotely that will help a marriage last. I think, in my opinion, it kind of stretches open the definition of what that marriage is, but it doesn't codify the actual sanctity and integrity of the marriage. Some people just grow out of each other, whether they bring people in or not. To make that less painful is their choice
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:48
And the part that causes me to be unsettled is I hear the term because when I say I'm introduced to the lifestyle in terms of me participating, I have heard of the term of polyamory. But the way how it was introduced to me was from a space of being promiscuous and lascivious. And so my viewpoint of people who were polyamorous were that they were just these wild people who just had random, aimless, non purposeful sex with anybody who had a heartbeat
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 3:36
So it would make sense that just like I have different connections with a romantic friends, I have a girlfriend for this, I have a girlfriend for that, I have a girlfriend for this. I also might have different romantic connections with men because my preference is men. To say, okay, this is the person. He pours into me business wise. He supports me and elevates me as a woman in business. He shares resources, educates me, shows me the way
Pious Ramon 🏳️🌈
@PiousRamon · 0:27
Let's see. Love, sexuality, relationships, all very complex stuff. Being a gay married man, that's very out. Yeah. I vote for Polyamory. Thanks for posting. All I can say is that it works for me, it works for my husband and we're very happy. Cheers
Wesley Willis
@weswillis · 0:34
Thank you so much for your response. That was so eloquently spoken. I can't wait to share that same perspective. It definitely adds another layer to kind of like, the conversation about polyamory, especially when it we break it down into friendships and kind of, like, makes a whole lot of sense. So thanks so much. Bye
Jessica Eden
@lifeartreality · 3:44
But it's definitely not always about one aspect of life, that kind of thing. And it just you can be a lot more honest and a lot less threatened when you feel safe admitting that you feel even polyamorous or it doesn't mean you're dating like crazy. It doesn't mean you have to have a bunch of people or a huge circle. You can, but you don't have to