And so you've developed this fawning response and this is the response that will indicate you growing up to be a people pleaser as an adult. And one of the main reasons why individuals become adults with the fawn response and the people pleasing response is because the main issue is being afraid of rejection and being abandoned and having an extreme response to chaos and fighting, a negative response to chaos and fighting
Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 5:00
And the fighters tend to attract people who are more accommodating and who are nicer and more people pleasing and who are more loyal and are the types of people who are going to want the cohesion and connection in the relationship. The people who are flight or freeze are the types of people who are more likely going to attract the opposite which would be people who are more attached or clingy or wanting constant connection and the types who are very talkative and the ones who want closeness