Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 4:48
Don’t Hate the Person, Hate the Behavior
And we want to get away from doing that because no amount of hate is going to lead to love, and that just causes a division in the relationship. So what we want to do instead is say to our partner that we hate the thing they did, but we don't hate them. So it's like, I don't hate you, I hate this thing that you did, or I hate this thing that you said, I hate the behavior, not you