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Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 4:56

Validate BEFORE Defend

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Why aren't you answering me? Why are you ignoring me? And we might immediately go into defense, right? Because we feel attacked. So we might say things like, oh, my gosh, I'm busy with work. I can't believe you're being so ridiculous right now. This is crazy that you're treating me this way, et cetera, et cetera. Instead, try to validate their feelings before you go into your defense

🌱 Laura talks about the one thing you must do before defending yourself. #Swell #Relationships #Validate.

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Bruno Pavlicek, PhD
@MotivateMeU · 1:33
Hi, Laura. Pleasure to meet you. My name is Bruno. Listening to your, I was going to say podcast Wilcast, you put forward a very rational and excellent position, and I think it's fair to say that in any argument, and even beyond on a relationship argument, family relationships, meaning the way I'm defining it, is either spousal or boyfriend girlfriend, whatever
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