Do they remember special days such as birthdays, anniversaries, et cetera? Do they say I love you often? Do they show you that they appreciate you? Do they smile when they see you? Do they speak kindly to you and speak in loving ways with respect? Do they treat you with kindness? Do they want to be around you and spend quality time with you? Do they support you in your dreams and goals? Do they communicate in a mature and adultlike manner?