The one that I knew for six years before getting into said relationship, the one that pursued me for said relationship, the one that asked me to be his girlfriend because he knew I was the one, the one that also mutually agreed and committed to the relationship for the long haul. Well, it was just that we were right on that path. The long haul being the prospect of being married. Well, we were on the path for that
Al Cosby
@Cosbyal4165 · 3:24
Because sometimes when you're in a relationship like that and the communication is at least on point to where you already know what's going on, then you definitely would have been understanding of it and then just would have given them enough space to then just check on them periodically to make sure everything is straight. And then a lot of time with circumstances like that, the best thing to do is keep it in prayer. And then when they want to reach out, they'll reach out to you
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 4:34
And once you find them out, or once you show them that you are really genuine and ready to move on to that final step, which is marriage, in my experience, they bail out. Dating is very stressful today. Dating is very strenuous today. I've just decided to remove myself from the dating pool. But your question was, when will you stop thinking about him? I think about this man every day of the week, and I don't know when I will stop thinking about him
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:57
And there will come a time where it won't be painful to think about him. It won't make you wonder what happened. You won't still be wondering what happened. Those things there will come closure for those things, right? But only you can tell when that happens, right? Because it's you, it's your life, it's your emotions, it's your feelings, right? And it's just like grieving a loved one
Kuuipo MeKealoha
@Werk_it_0ut · 5:00
And I think for people who do get lost in relationships, they tend to first and foremost okay, I can speak for myself. When my relationship had ended, and I've come to that realization that I've lost myself, the first thing I wanted to do is to progress and to improve me physically, mentally, because I wanted revenge on him. And I didn't want to do it in a shady way
SOUL MIND
@BEAUTIFULSOULMI · 4:50
Hi. Work it out. Your reply was some sauce of awesomeness. I must tell you that. And losing yourself in a relationship is something that I am guilty of. And in my current journey, I'm learning to be emotionally intelligent. And I did a swell, a couple of swells back. In regard to emotional intelligence, there are five steps to emotional intelligence. You must first be self aware
Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 5:00
I highly recommend people when they're in relationships that both people take those three quizzes, you can find them online and they're only like five minutes long each. So it's the Love Language quiz, the Love Style quiz, and the Attachment Style quiz and that really helps you to understand your love and attachment styles as well as your partner's love and attachment styles. And I believe that helps relationships to flourish
So I know that you are a sweet soul. You are a loving and caring person. I can tell that. But you can't be so loving and caring that you're making excuses for people that hurt you. It's as simple as that. To say that my mother's only caregiver, and you guys spent six days a week together, and that's coming up in a conversation. You know what I mean? That already should be a given. It's crazy
But it's not going to be the way you wanted it to be because you didn't want it to end in the first place. So everybody can't go now. You are not built to sit with grief. You are not built to all of a sudden have this place rented by somebody that is right now insignificant in your life and they keep that for the rest of your life. That's insanity. That is insanity. That is Hallmark Channel. Maybe he'll come back
Just talk to me and I promise I won't let you down because I don't want to do the wrong thing. It's been a long time for this one, and everything I expected, I had. But let me know that I'm doing all right. I don't want to have to walk around like I know what I'm doing because I think that you are attracted by confidence. That's not me when I'm with you