But I'd love to hear what other folks have experienced when finding new love and how they've experienced the chemistry of falling in love. So I hope to hear back from some of you and look forward to the conversation
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 3:40
I think it's the most common and fertile space to look at because we all want to have these oak trees in our garden, the trees that really protect all the other beautiful things that are growing, all the little saplings. But that oak tree is you. And that oak tree is standing and is firm, and it's all the 48 years of your beautiful life and your branches you can see as your your family and any any direction you want to take that
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 0:07
I hope you keep us posted. And best of everything to you. Looking forward to hearing more
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:58
But in my mind I'm like I'm observing to see how do you show up consistently over time? My new philosophy is now there should be no titles even explored until a little over a year after dating in this manner
Theresa H
@shesmovingon · 3:07
And as a person who has done a lot of work on herself and I've made the last decade of my life about my own growth and my own self awareness and tapping into the things that I want in order to live, like a whole hearted and authentic life for myself. I think because it has been so long since I've felt this way about another person that the traditional idea of falling in, as far as falling in love was, of course, the first thing that came to mind
Ryan Caplinger
@RyanCarsonC · 1:05
And then you hook up that night. So the fact that you're getting to know someone and it feels right, you'll know, if it's right. Like you said, you've been divorced, you've been through it, and I wish you nothing but happiness
Theresa H
@shesmovingon · 2:03
So I'm trying to think of a good word. It's the seductive part of the beginning of the relationship, right? It's so good. You just want more of it. And I am embracing that part of this relationship and I look forward to learning more and him learning more about me
Ryan Caplinger
@RyanCarsonC · 2:03
Thank you for replying. Your words were so sweet. Yeah. Take your time and the journey of fallen in love like we talked about. And you have so much experience. You've already been through heartbreak, and maybe it's your time now. Me, I'm not a real positive person when it comes to love. I want to meet that person, and I just want to feel something something, and I want to be taken back. And I don't want it to be complicated
Tim Oxendine
@Ellis · 3:38
Get a chance to network, meet people, and don't settle for the first thing that comes along that you feel like fall in love and you just stressed. It's too soon to fall in love. And I totally agree. But I do believe in love at first sight. But being that said, also believe in that it has to come from both sides
