Careful what you say. Release and let it go
Sometimes I guard myself and not say too much because I don't want to offend anyone or to offend him or make him feel like I'm belittling him. But there are some days I just have to say exactly how I feel and I have to do that so that no resentment comes out. Because there are days sometimes I feel resentment because I like to be his wife, but I'm not his wife some days. Some days I'm just a caregiver
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 1:18
And there has to be some continuity in your own declaration of who you are as his wife so that he doesn't forget and you don't forget some kind of ritual you can bring back to the relationship so that you can indulge in that beautiful bond that is not of the caretaking nature. But I think it's just so generous of you to still find the time to give us advice while you're still, you know, while you're in your own challenging moments
