There must be an anointing on your life that make them focus on you to want to scandalize your name, lie on you, talk about you, give rumors. And even if it's the truth, it's still your business. But why is it some people just can't handle people talking about them? That should give you motivation to keep going to better yourself. You yourself, period, should be motivation enough
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:18
You. Good morning, Queen. Thank you for inviting me. Not everyone is confident in themselves. Not everyone has been affirmed so that they can be confident in themselves. Every parent doesn't affirm their child. And so when your parents don't firm you, then you seek approval from everyone else
Party Will
@PartyWill · 4:23
I love your question of why do people allow other people's opinions to affect them. It's because growing up, we're kind of instilled without realizing that we always want the approval. It starts with us wanting, of course, wanting approval of our parents to be proud of us. And then if we not all of us are that lucky that our parents love us
It's. Hey. Good evening, Queen. This is a good topic to speak out on. This is a good question. There there's a lot of this topic question going around as far as like, seeing it through people social media posts, stories that people are sharing, testimonies, whatever that may be
Your sister's kids or the kids up the road need a place to stay, and you're going to learn patience that way. You understand what I'm saying? It's never just like that for me. It's practicing the spiritual opposite. If I can get it into that context, if I can't get it into that context, then it takes some praying, some staying in, talking to people and seeing if they have gotten over this or if it doesn't bother them anymore
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 4:21
She does the same thing, but when I talk to her, she doesn't want to reveal that, yeah, she really hurting inside because she would discuss what a person said over and over and how people treat her. And I'm like, well, it does hurt you. Why are you fighting it? It's okay to be hurt or to take offense towards what a person says or does to you
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:48
Good evening, this is the Queen. Mr. Seven, are you talking to me personally? Because some of the questions I ask are just open question, because I come into people who are dealing with that. So I'm asking an open question for everyone to give their opinion in their answer. This is a conversation piece. Squab. Not everything people are asking, they're going through it
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:42
So let me say thank you for that and thank you for continuing to encourage yourself throughout of the diagnosis that you've been through, because your voice sounds very powerful in knowledge that you're able to reach back and pull somebody else up that's gone through or dealing with issues that you're dealing with. So continue to stay encouraged, continue to understand that you are special and you are needed. Bye
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 5:00
And let me say that I'm proud of you, that you recovered from the abuse that you went through with your husband, that you found you and loved you enough to say I'm worthy to either be by myself, to grow and develop, to bring out the queen that's in me and to love her. And I'm proud of you that you wrote your book. I've been working on mines for years and I'm still getting it together
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 2:43
And when you truly accept who you are, who God has called you to be, who God has took through the steps of shedding the stuff that you've got to let go of, you understand why you go through so much, why you have to acknowledge that you are more than a conqueror. Because you survived you and you know your destiny. And you've got to stop punishing yourself for growing above some people because God has pushed you up and you feel guilty because some people were left behind
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 2:59
So I constantly tell my grandkids and even other kids in upchurch or and kids in public school my surrounding how brutal they are, how important they are, how powerful they are, that they are loved and needs to be loved constantly. But even as some adults, we're still looking for that in marriages. We're still looking to see if our partners confirmed us as still being important to them, still being motivated to build with one another. And I know the world is lost
Beth Murray
@Sovereign · 5:00
It depends on what I'm facing or if it's something up close and personal or not. I know someone was talking about social media and I would say a lot of times on my page, I don't get a lot of feedback that is negative. So let's say I get negative feedback. Then I question how I respond to the negative feedback. I search myself first because I sought the approval of my parents. I sought the approval of many leaders
Party Will
@PartyWill · 2:12
And we can talk about different topics or you can create your own topics and just put the word out there more besides Swell, so that way we can get you out and have you more promotional the way you deserve to be. And thank you again. Yeah, it's always that challenge about being bullied and our past and the tribulations. But it's true what they say. God only gives us what he knows we can handle, even though we can't handle it. And it seems fair
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 1:03
But thank you. And I continue to pray that God opens doors for you and motivates you to go beyond what you think, because God always take us further than what we think. So be blessed and have a wonderful weekend. I think our weekend here in Virginia is going to be a alert storm alert. So I'm going to make it to the grocery store to pack in for the weekend, but I will email you. Have a blessed day
Party Will
@PartyWill · 1:19
I wish you all the best and a wonderful weather. And good luck on groceries. I know it's expensive out there. And to your awesome followers, just stay blessed, stay happy. And I always tell everybody, remember, you are special. Don't let anybody tell you different. And I leave everyone peace, tranquility, love, understanding. Bye. Have a wonderful weekend. Bye
Antionette Wiggins
@Queen11 · 0:15
Hello, Mr. Willie, this is the queen. Let me know if you got my email, because I know sometimes my computer is a little crazy. But I did email you. Check email. Bye
jalina upchurch
@YaGirlNikki · 4:23
If you got parents and that taught you how to do it, your background, your upbringing, is not a lot of us out here doing that. And I don't want to, you know, downgrade any men or anything, but we all share the same type of situations where one person or another person has dealt with being hurt or criticized or down by another person. It's just that we all perceive that differently. But thank you for replying
Joshua Tito
@ozzymendez · 4:57
Or they might just not like the person and just sort of try to start a fight, essentially. And this is especially true on the Internet, broadly speaking, because people sometimes have the mistaken idea that the internet is like just kind of what you put is just that's all there is. But there's a lot of emotional connotations to it. A lot of times people have a lot of preset notions associated with certain words and they might get somewhat triggered and then they're looking for a response