Is it better to be a wolf? Is it better to be a shark? Or is it better to find a balance between the two? Be nice when you have to be. Not so nice when you need to. I'm curious what you guys think. Let me know. Bye
Jack .
@zejacques · 2:53
But as I grew and as I gained experience in more leadership roles and learned to manage large teams, especially 50 plus people teams, a lot of young people too, I was forced to question and then unpack and unlearn my people pleasing ways and worrying about the other person's feelings
Although I think that setting that boundary is an act of love for myself and in a way, an act of love for those around me. It shows them what I expect and what I value, and they can make their judgments or choices or reflections of what they see. And that can have a positive effect, but that also p***** people off, I guess
Sagar Bhosale
@sagarbhosale · 4:58
So yes, first try and assess what reaction would make you a nice guy. Try and assess the pros and cons of it. If it has in a longer term, if it has a lot of pros, please go ahead, do not think of the immediate difficulty, because that is exactly how our defenses, how our parameteries, train us to assess the situation. And if it's going to benefit in a longer term, go ahead with it
Sagar Bhosale
@sagarbhosale · 1:02
Or your super dad, just because you are playing a fabulous role in life and that is the reason you get these amazing questions and insightful questions, questions which have huge perspectives, deeper look towards life. So, yes, I am going to pick up this question and I am going to apply the thinking grid which I was talking in my reply and I will be posting that soon, reselling, most probably. I think it will be tonight and I will tag you along with that
That allow the woman to see through their single. And they can't put the block down. They can't stop drinking. Can't stop buying video games. Basically becoming a symp. Or they are married in an open relationship, or in a relationship where the woman has a boyfriend and the husband and things like that. Like the memes that you see about my wife's boyfriend bought me the Star Wars Lego set kind of thing, this is not natural to it goes completely against biology
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 1:27
And now you understand what it means to sometimes be a chameleon, right? You adapt to your surroundings. And that's what it's about. That's what being a man is about. Because in this new transitional society, I'll call it that we are told as men that sometimes we have to to tone down our masculinity. And sometimes that is true. But sometimes you got to show teeth
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 2:03
Respectfully, there is a different set of rules in society for women. So if it doesn't make sense, it's because you haven't experienced the things that men experience. Now, I know modern psychologists and wokhologists will say we're all the same and essentially we are right DNA wise. Two arms, two legs, two eyes, one brain. Yeah, in that sense humans are the same. But there is a differentiation in the species
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 1:05
But the thing is, unless someone goes through extensive reprogramming of their mind, they may find it difficult, in the heat of the moment to adhere to what you're saying, because you either got it or you don't. And you may not have to be born with it, but you will have to acquire it over time and with tests. So, yeah, I'm definitely interested in hearing about your grid and seeing how you interpret yours or take on the question. Always a pleasure, man
Within that context, I was trying to highlight that there is more than the ideas that others have for us, or the ideas that have been imprinted on us, or the ideas that we have embraced and decided to live by. Apologies if it came across this trolling. It was not intended that way. I understand what you're saying and that the man's experience is different than my own. Absolutely. And so on
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 0:27
Hey, Paul, th that is not me, sir. I am about a hundred pounds heavier than that guy and more than a few shades darker. I am the antithesis of what he looks like. I just take pictures off Google and put it to my post because it feels like it fits. But, you know, you're in branding. You get it. But thank you, my friend. I appreciate you
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 0:32
Hey, Christina. You are very welcome here. You do not have to refrain from responding. I just want to make sure that we both understand each other. And it's OK to not understand each other as long as we have that understanding. But thank you very much. And I do appreciate appreciate the balance of feminine energy. Right? Sometimes it helps me put my thoughts into perspective to hear a take from the other side. So it's all welcome, it's all love
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 0:20
Ah, yes, I know you, sir. I recognize that cold flame that burns and the sound of the flickering is all too familiar. You are also a keeper of the in the night of the old cold. Welcome home, brother
Lance Watson
@lwatsonjr · 3:51
I think that that sort of lays at the foot of the question that if we're talking about a specific definition of what nice is and that is used as a descriptor of an individual or guy in the case of your question, then I think we could all sort of more succinctly respond to one side of this or the other. Or, like myself, we can identify in your question the nature of the question, right? Reverse engineering the question, deconstructing the question and understand it as cliche, right?
But I would like to open up that door and say that there is a lot of psychological trauma that stems from where this cliche comes from. I feel like we are, as a race of human beings, starting to heal the toxic masculinity trauma. But I do think it will take a lot of consistent work and asking really tough questions similar to this one. I don't think last guys finish last
Paul OMahony
@omaniblog · 0:17
I love that phrase. It s okay for us not to understand each other so long as we have an understanding. I just think that's one of the best and most useful phrases that I've heard
Sambhav Gupta
@yogisambhav · 2:32
So we have to look deeper into the societal constructs from which these terms called niceguy mean guy appear. So yeah, that was my point. I hope that I made sense and maybe you got some answer related to your question. Thank you
Kyle Crossman
@kylecrossman · 1:58
And I think at the end of the day, a lot of it is just chance and luck. And people who are rude are going to find people who are also rude, and they're just going to be friends with each other, and people who are nice are going to find people who also like to be nice, and they're just going to be friends with each other. And, like, people just tend to find, like, people