Are men being I don't want to use the word cash rated but are men expected to push down those male traits? Is it okay to still be a manly man? Men out there, do you feel like you have to suppress your inner man women? Do you feel like you want a man who's more sensitive? Let me know. Let's build on the discussion
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 0:34
This is an interesting question to pose because it sounds like you've already have your answer, but you're unsure if you want to really say how you feel. So maybe you're looking for a bit of confirmation bias from the public and then you can probably, at greater length, explain your reasoning. But my question I have to you is what do you see as a man and what do you see as a woman coming in in these times?
Sagar Bhosale
@sagarbhosale · 5:00
Everybody knows and keeps saying this common jargon, which is change is constant, change is necessary, change is required. But we are so being animals of habit. We are so negative towards change that if today someone wants to open up them being gay or using guys. Using lip balms or using sun lotions or what your ideal topic captures if someone is trying to do that. Being a guy. He's either they will treat him like whoa dude. What you're up to. You being pansy
Sebastian Cahill
@sebc23 · 4:55
That's not trying to call you outdated or anything, just that obviously we just have different cultural contexts for things because we've had different experiences. I think that it's a really complex question about, like, is being a manly man taboo?
He hit his wife and children when they needed to be hit, and that's how they would justify things back then, as if the children and wife were deserving of physical violence and would sleep around town left and right. And that, obviously, is going to influence my dad to some degree. And in his own home country, it was a normal thing for young boys to be taken to prostitution houses, to lose their virginity. That's how they became a man
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:44
I think that's the wrong conversation to have personally. What is manly, it changes so often. Why even keep up with it? Society doesn't tell me how to be a man. I learned to be a better adult and a better person in society. That's what makes you a better man. Becoming better than the person you were the day before. That's just my thoughts, though. Thank you for the conversation
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 2:10
And, yes, it sounds like we come from a similar geographical background, where going to jail, shooting, things like that represent manhood. But that is not completely accurate. But it depends on your definition of what makes a man. Right. So I love to hear your perspective. I think you have brilliant inclinations intellectually, and I like your feedback in particular. So thank you for responding. No right or wrong answers
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 3:49
Being a boxer and being a hairdresser, that's a very cool transition. Like myself, I'll give you more of my background later. But I used to be in the music industry. I owned a record label at a young age. I was a rapper, I was an engineer, I was a producer. And this was early two thousand s. And I would say hip hop was a different time during then. It was a different era
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 0:49
Hey, Sebastian. Welcome back, my friend. Great response. I love to hear the feedback from the youth. Since you called me a dinosaur. I'm joking. But no, in all honesty, I wasn't necessarily talking about domestic gender roles. I was referencing societal gender perception. Like just being a man in society. The idea of what a traditional man is. Old school ways of thinking. Is that way of thinking taboo? And again, no right or wrong answers
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 0:34
Hey. Cigar? Thank you, sir. I hope I pronounced your name right. Great response. I appreciate it. You know, you made a good point. It is. I think people should just be allowed to be people. Whatever you call a man or a female or now they're using pronouns, whatever, I don't care. It doesn't bother me. I'm not offended, but just wanted to hear people's responses and see what people felt on the subject. So
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 0:25
Hey man, so I've noticed something. The earlier you reply or you post during the day, the more stoic your answers and your responses and your dialogue. And then I think it's like after 12:00 p.m. Them when the coffee hits you're like you shoot straight from the hip. But I appreciate it, man. But thank you again. Always a pleasure, sir
Lance Watson
@lwatsonjr · 4:12
What's up, nuclear dad? This is Ralph L-J-I wanna thank you for this post, man. And it's, you know, it's right in the vein of of woke culture and and, you know, the spurring on of sort of divergent thinking from the homogeny, right, like how people are thinking specifically in Western culture in America about gender and about, for lack of a better word, the engendering of a more obscure orientation in society for male and female and everything in between
NUCLEAR DAD
@NuclearDad · 2:07
Mr. Watson. Excellent, excellent reply. Wonderfully articulated. And like you said, you you understood my intent and you understood that I was unintentionally intentionally try to ruffle feathers. Right. Because I just wanted to get people to express their raw feeling about the question that was posed, you know, where do they stand in society and their thoughts about what manhood is? And again, completely subjective. It's a case by case basis. Right
Okay, let me let me join this topic. Let me jump into this. You know what? I guess you could say no. You know what? Now I still think it's taboo to not be manly. I think what we are saying now is that men are afraid that women don't need men like that anymore. Women do not need men to put food on a table for them or to put a roof over their head. They could do that all by themselves
Lance Watson
@lwatsonjr · 4:39
But I definitely think that it's a much needed conversation around manhood, around fathering and being a father figure, for lack of a better phrase. I will share this man that in line with your question about manhood. I, by way of sharing, participate and lead a program called Making Men and along the lines of masculinity and what is a manly man. I'm sure you wouldn't be surprised that some listeners may be surprised that in this program it's designed around the acronym Made M-A-D
Wren .
@aBirdieOnaWire · 4:55
Hi, guys. Well, I guess I'll be the first estrogen powered person to offer a response to the conversation. I think on the surface, the question is it taboo to be a manly man? Honestly, I think it's a rather easy question to answer, and I think the answer is yes. I'm going to assume that by manly man you mean hypermassium and by taboo, bad or not really well accepted by society