My resentment towards my parents. Does not mean I don't love them

And now that I'm just a month or two away from actually getting my surgeries, they've come in with this let's help kind of mentality, and I know it's all just lip service, and quite honestly, I don't need the help anymore. I love my parents. Don't get me wrong. I just sometimes resent them for not caring as much

This is the first time I've ever really spoken about these thoughts