You have the people within the family who have been struggling for so many years and not being presented with the right way to fix any of the wrongs, that they just kind of keep continuing this negative narrative. And it just keeps going, and it keeps going. And because you don't know anything different, for some, it becomes very normal. You start to normalize the dysfunction. And when you do that, it's not because you want to live in this toxic space
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 2:42
Because I think when there's really deep rooted dysfunction that you call generational curse, you have to just make your choices about what you spend time trying to change versus how you're trying to build into the future. Really provocative question. I'm looking forward to people and their response to this
Matt Simmons
@MilesToGo · 5:00
Where you grow where you're planted, right? You grow where you're planted. And that seed is going to grow when he's so strong or so weak, based upon where you're located when it all starts. But none of it's easy. I feel you. And again, I appreciate bringing this to light, but sometimes it requires changing the people, changing the environment, and completely respecting all the real mental health issues that come with it. But we can't do it alone
Love LadyO 💋
@loveladyo · 1:23
We have to be able to grow through the mess. So, again, thank you so much. And I really love hearing your feedback and it actually gave me a little bit more to ponder. So I appreciate you. Thanks
Love LadyO 💋
@loveladyo · 5:00
And I really think we need to just pay more attention and be aware and mindful that if we are, in fact the family, you should want the best for your family, and what do we have to do to make that happen? So thank you again, Miles. All right, lady. Ow
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:52
And I finally stopped her and I said, what do you want to do for your birthday lunch? And she honestly couldn't answer that, which was really sad. And I was like, no, mom, focus on what you want to do for your birthday. What restaurant you want to go to, what time do you want to go, who do you want to be there? It's not about other people