Let’s talk- Breastfeeding spoils babies
And so we don't want them to necessarily be clingy or to be dependent or you know what I'm saying, of us. We want them to be independent and strong and all these other things. But when you really sit back and think about it, you're like, as a baby, like, as a baby, should we really be thinking like this? Should we really have this outlook? And it's hard
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 2:40
And everyone has different opinions about when to stop. But, God, babies need to be spoiled. You are spot on. They need to feel that love. When they get older, three years, four years, they learn about sharing. They learn about that they're not the center of the universe, but babies that get that love, they get all that foundational stuff that makes them strong. People looking forward to hearing other thoughts. Thank you
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:53
I had to make the decision I remember grieving when I decided to not to have more children for a variety of reasons, too many to go into and the time I have left. And then also when I had to make the decision of how I would nurture my child in a way that works for me so that I could also work and be a mother. When I made the decision to separate from his father and divorce his father what does that nurturing look like?
Marley Musarra
@MarleyMusarra · 2:51
And that being said, I know some moms are able to produce enough for their baby, so that's why they use formula. I personally am not a mother yet, but I know that I want to be some day. So I am always curious to step into conversations like this. And I think that brings up kind of science proving that breastfeeding is the healthiest thing for the baby. That being said, JL brought up maybe it's not always the healthiest for the mother