breeanna adams
@BreeannaS94 · 2:32
Mother wounds
But as I'm getting older in my life, I'm realizing that the things that I have held in forever are affecting me on a day to day basis. And not in a hurtful, physical way, but more of like a mental way where flashbacks happen and I'll just lose it. I dealt with it my whole entire life, and I'm still dealing with it to this very day
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 3:41
The other is more like the be here now, fabulous mom dealing with all that drama that you can keep buoyancy in. So I hope you speaking into this space is part of your process and part of your joy. But the wounds, like you use that phrase wounds, you're using it because there are wounds. And to keep on scraping them open at any time is not going to help you
breeanna adams
@BreeannaS94 · 2:15
I think that I'm going to devote a certain time every day to just writing a page and then reading it and hope that people get a message from it, because I know that I'm not the only one who feels the pain that I do. And I think that that's where I've had to kind of look at it, like, okay, Breeanna, you want to help others? This is your way to do it. You've got to help them with your words
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Everything Jay
@everythingjay · 3:31
Because I've tried to have a conversation as an adult with my mom several times, and it was always even down to the point of her even trying to call out my own parenting versus acknowledging her own, like, it just never went well. So instead of being able to have one of those conversations and smooth it out, because who really wants a bad relationship with their parents? No one goes out and really just wants to not get along with their parents. So it never happened
Always turn you back to kind of a positive introspection and how you can use this information as a reminder that you are breaking the cycle. And yeah, I just really do know where you're coming from and encourage you on your path of healing. And as you heal, you will take that healing into your family. I wish you the best and hope to continue to connect with you here as well