Divorce, Grandparents & Penguins!
It says that somewhere in Karnataka, a man left his woman saying that she always serves him Maggie. And, yeah, there are more bizarre cases like that. But when I see people getting divorced around me, it's mainly for the reasons that either somebody's having an extra mattel affair or somebody finds a better job opportunity and then they just want to leave. And maybe sometimes I've even seen a partner getting divorced because the other person is not ready to spend their money on them
But yes, I would tell you one thing that whenever I asked my parents that why don't you take a divorce if you're not happy together? The only reason they would give me is that no, because of society stigma about divorces. So they were like, no, if we take a divorce, then no, I have two daughters who would marry you. So this was the stigma they were afraid of. And they actually spent their whole life in hell
Surya V
@welcome28 · 5:00
We don't know probability. So once I had a discussion with my friend. She said she had enough with him. She's going in for a divorce. She wants me to stand by her at this hour so that she don't succumb to any emotional drama. Either from his side or even her own side. From the husband's side or from even her own side. I said emotion is a subject matter of the heart. But drama is mostly from the mind. Mind is cunning
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Surya V
@welcome28 · 2:16
Hello. Hi, Ashmi. I want to add a few more lines. The most satisfying relationship between two life partners is the one in which each other respect the unknown side of each other and not be too curious or concerned about it. Hope you stand. I want to tell a joke for you. A joke for you. The wife was washing the fant the pant of her husband. While washing she found a slip written as Rosie space 987-654-3210. It was written on that slip
aamna singh
@aamy · 3:09
It was posted by Dr. Vasundra, if I'm not mistaken. Ashani invited. And it shared that human beings today are very fickle minded. And that kind of pours down to your relationships, to everything in the dynamic that we're talking about. So having these unrealistic expectations, the lack of communication, the value system, which is getting so different. There are trust issues that partners have. There's so much of infidelity today that we see around
Every situation is unique, and we may not fully know the reasons behind someone's decision, right? While some divorce cases that happen around us may seem to be baffling or even trivial, as I said, every individual's experiences and circumstances vastly differ. And it's true that compromise and adjustment are super important in any relationship, because they allow for growth, understanding and stronger connections. However, marriages and relationships are so much more complex because they involve individuals who have their own needs, aspirations and boundaries
Sreeja V
@Wordsmith · 1:51
Hi. Thank you for inviting me to this. Well, in fact, inspired by this, I put out another swell around the series called Sweet Karim Coffee. So I'm going to invite you to that. So what I feel is it all starts with being selfcentered, right? Any relationship, be it husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, or with your parents, or with siblings or at work, people are more and more looking at things from the perspective of receiving, right?
Parents and Jari would think this is a nice guy. Don't go for that background. Don't go for those fancy cars or don't go for those looks. That this girl is very good. She wants to have a family. She wants nang in any Bahanji. He's not very rich. Just think about that life, man. You need to spend a life. Grow old. No, this is not the life. That is a problem. That is the problem
Geetika Kaushal
@Gkaushal6 · 2:29
And most importantly, they used to get married at a very early age. I mean if I look myself years back I used to have lot of patience but as the time has passed I am also becoming impatient sometimes so nowadays people have started earning also from a very younger age and they have been exploring lots of things through social media and the scenario has totally changed
When the life takes you, you'll understand on the later part, but that time it will be extremely late. So I feel your feelings are very important and you should share it. That is, I feel the most important aspect in a relationship. And I feel divorced cases will be less if two people will communicate and understand their point of view. That is extremely important
Aanchal Makhija
@Dr.Aanchal · 0:45
You. Oh, yeah, I totally agree on your point, because, you know, grandparents, though they were suffering, though they had also gone through bad times, but they never gave up. These days, I think the patience level has gone. So touch down the point below that earth, I don't know where it has gone. You won't realize. Even I recently have stumbled upon a upon some article where a man of 58 years old filed a divorce