@Amelie
Amèlie Vandross
@Amelie · 4:05

One of my favorite kinks

He's a handsome young man, he's like very handsome, but nothing to get me going. But when he starts talking about bandwidth, the connection, and this is happening because of this, and if your modem is behind a wall and just goes on and on about what's the problem with my internet connection and how what could be the problem, how it can be fixed. Just the more he talked, the more hot and bother I got. It's always been like that for me

Sapiosexual, someone who is sexually attracted to intelligence.

@FryedOreo
Dewuan .
@FryedOreo · 4:38

🤔 😋🤣

That's what they want to get the talking phase over with. A lot of them I know they famously don't want to text with you forever, they want to meet at some point in time. But I feel if the conversation is not established first, nothing will happen in the physical at least with the online dating aspect especially because that can deviate into other things later, like role play
@timlara
Tim Lara
@timlara · 1:46
Hey. So, yeah, responding to kinks, you know, I think I agree with the response before me. You know, there's definitely exciters. And when I was younger, there was definitely, you know, a more physical kind of beauty that I was looking at as a young man who was out and about. As I got older, I began to realize the SAP of sexual thing is kind of true. I was attracted to somebody who was going to occupy my time more
@Her_Sisu
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:48
But if you can't tell me what to do, then you can't tell me what to do. And I felt that all the way through to my soul, let me tell you. Because there's nothing like a man who is operating fully in his masculinity and he knows who he is all the way to the core. He knows what he wants to do, and he can set a plan for what to do that turns me all the way on
@Amelie
Amèlie Vandross
@Amelie · 2:33

@Her_Sisu

SIS. I totally understand exactly what you're saying, and I agree. I agree. I wouldn't even call it a kink. To me, that's more like that is more like a personality trait, you know? Because you sound like a strong, dominant woman like I am. And like you said, if you can tell me what to do, then you can tell me what to do. And you have to be a strong man to be able to tell me what to do
@Amelie
Amèlie Vandross
@Amelie · 0:55

@timlara

When somebody's teaching me something, I'm seeing something new, I'm seeing something different. So you get it. And that's beautiful that you have someone in your life that way. So you can share those type of things with. That's very important. That's a good foundation to have in a relationship
@Amelie
Amèlie Vandross
@Amelie · 2:11

@FryedOreo

Date night, I'm going to come to the bar with a red shirt on in my short shorts and I'll know who you are by your black shirt, blue jeans. We're going to play prostitute John. Or I'm going to be driving and you can pick me up at the gas station. It can go any kind of way. Or if you have a fantasy, like you've always want to mess with the reverend or his wife, you can role play that as well
@AryanKishore
Aryan Kishore 11
@AryanKishore · 0:28
Hey. Learned a lot, understood quite a bit of things. And I think I was shielded from such a thought or such education that is very much required to understand, you know, others perspective and understand how the real world works and how a person who seems just like you has a lot of other things going on in their head. I think that's stupid
@lwatsonjr
Lance Watson
@lwatsonjr · 3:18

@Amelie: Auralism (mildly)…or maybe Narratophilia

Or when she takes trips because she does a lot of traveling for work, I'll say, tell me from the moment you got on the lance how things unfolded until you got back. And she starts down the road. It's pretty cool, but this is a cool conversation. I think that there is a space for these types of conversations to take place. What's the word I'm going to choose to use here?
@Amelie
Amèlie Vandross
@Amelie · 2:04

@lwatsonjr

Thank you for your input. That is really great that you bring that up, because I dated a guy who had a very similar you know what? It pretty much was the same thing. Liked to hear about my grocery shopping trips. So that's very similar. I'm not sure if it's a different name because it was like, basically, when I go grocery shopping, he wanted to hear the whole shebang. Just like you said, it's like a story. Once upon a time
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