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@ZenMomma · 4:55

March-ing Into Change with Nostalgia & a Grateful Heart

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There's something always in the air in March here in Central Florida that just kind of we start to really get we kind of jump from winter or fallish to summer. We don't have a whole lot of spring, but March is a little bit of that kind of I'd say late February from like Valentine's Day to mid. March is just a time of kind of back and forth and change and little stirring up of everything and kind of rushing into the new
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J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 2:59
Nobody in your family stood up for you? No one in your family was like, look, we're going to all exit the situation together because if one of us is disinfected, the whole crew disaffected. He was like, man, he was like, that would have went differently if that was my advantage. Well, that was my experience
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Wren .
@aBirdieOnaWire · 4:18
My wife, God bless her, she really tried. She did so much research and a lot of introspection and came to the understanding that she is not only bisexual, but but attracted more so to women than to men, but because of kind of, what would you call it, past trauma, indoctrination her mother family, society, telling her that being gay is wrong and terrible. She's had a very, very hard time getting over that obstacle in her mind
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Zen Momma
@ZenMomma · 5:00

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And like you said in the past I have had things bone up and had to become my own cheerleader and then eventually I got my new tribe and such. But one of the things I'm looking forward to in the future is kind of really my next tribe being very chosen. I think in the past it's been a lot of friends by association with church or work or family or even my wife's friends
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Zen Momma
@ZenMomma · 5:00

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And unfortunately, as we step more into ourselves sometimes, oftentimes a lot of people fall away and it's really hard when it's someone a life partner. I'm really sorry and I hope that you too are able to savor the moments and stuff and who knows, maybe something will change. But I think it's wise of you to work on accepting and mourning that relationship. I'm really sorry about that
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Wren .
@aBirdieOnaWire · 4:58
This other young woman had a very hard time with accepting her sexual orientation as a lesbian and kept it very much at arm assistance. And she wouldn't bring my niece around family or friends as a partner. And so my niece eventually broke it off. And, yeah, it sounds very similar to your wife's story and to what's going on with me and my wife. She's having a very hard time with it. She's very much struggling and has even offered up designing
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