Do You Have a Gender Expression Cycle?
Hey, isn't this apps? Well hey guys. Happy Monday to you. I want to talk a little bit about gender expression because I think a lot of people in our society are now becoming more aware of the fact that there's a lot of different ways for gender to express itself, whereas people didn't really know that so much before
Jessica Eden
@lifeartreality · 4:00
And I noticed, like, with my last relationship, I was very I think I started out very masculine, and I was comfortable with that in a way. And then I went to because I was masculine and I think that carried over from a previous relationship and then I became very feminine and then that's when I started to get uncomfortable cause I think I was feeling within and some of that internal awareness came up
Yeah, I think relationships definitely ebb and flow with the masculine and feminine, for sure. My wife is very straight and she doesn't tend to like to be in charge of things so much when she's in her home space because also partly she's the boss at work. So she tends to like to maintain her strong sense of femininity in our relationship. And we started out the relationship where I was certainly the more masculine, more dominant member of the relationship, and we definitely have found a balance
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Jessica Eden
@lifeartreality · 3:43
That is really interesting though, about how, like it's like you can express kind of yourself in that way, but then you still feel male, but then you can express yourself and not worry. That's really cool in a way that you can do that. And yes, I know for the girlfriend at the time that I had, she had a really hard time with a lot of different things, but she was kind of happy at what the future had and that kind of thing
Although I will say that when I started to cross dress again as my daughter was kind of nearing the end of high school, she definitely had sort of a moment where she had to adjust to it and she's a lesbian. And as she came out to us, it actually made her coming out way easier because she was like, oh, my dad dresses like a woman anyway, so who cares? So she knew that she was fully accepted