Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 4:59
Lost and Found myself anew !!
So, for example, if I was ending up liking somebody, then that somebody would not answer would not reply to me because in the affirmative I would not even give any answers as such because probably all that she would. Have wanted is to be with the pets that I have or to be with them and to be able to come here and visit them more often
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 4:35
And I think that is problematic because until unless you know people, you want to explore them, you want to understand them, you will never be able to create foundation of a good relationship, be it friendship or a romantic relationship or a familial bond, anything. I think we need to know people like in the truest and rawest form possible. And that requires curiosity, time, empathy, not sympathy, empathy, because empathy is a very empowering emotion
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 5:00
But the biggest challenge then what comes up is the way these people try to come back into my life and kind of let me know how present they are and all of that. Now they might be right on their part, right? And I'm not saying that they might not be wrong or something, but it's sometimes just like too much of it for me to really process it
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 5:00
But if it has become a recurrent thing that every time you are with those kind of people, you feel the same kind of feelings, then I think that blocking them is the best option here. Because whenever you will bring this issue with them, they will always have certain points which will make sense to you because he or she is justified. Kibai mujasalakta. This is it. Sometimes there are no middle grounds where two people can reach Naota. You have to accept it and you have to move on