Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 4:48
Useless piece of shit!!
For the first time in my life today, like many other days, I would say not even for the first time when I stepped inside my office. When I work with all those medications that I'm taking post my divorce, that was a different level ballgame altogether because I never wanted it. She wanted it. She had it. And we had to recover from the kind of emptiness that it has left inside me. Thanks to the doctors and the meds that I take. Antidepressants. Antianxiety medicines
Remember that you'll find happiness again and tough times don't stay for long. You can take this as diverse as an opportunity for growth and self discovery. Focus on what makes you happy and spend more time with the people you like, people who understand you, listen to you without judgment and visit friends and family more often. And find out a new hobby if you can. And feeling lonely is rarely talked about in relation to divorce. But loneliness I know it's difficult to deal with
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 1:40
You. While there is so many positives what you said, I think essentially I put out my words out today because I felt like nobody heard me or nobody hears me. I felt so useless. It so thank you with all the suggestions that you give. Thank you for all the inputs that you share. I haven't had people around me for a while now and just want to take some freedom, speed people in the normal, not care people around you. It's very fast, very difficult
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 3:26
I can only be grateful that I had someone like you replying it. And since you mentioned that you've been going through a similar process, a similar thing in your life, it makes me wonder of how painful that must be. Because nowadays when I live in this kind of a lonely life, I try to wonder of how others who feel the same way must be feeling like
You V. It's a process, and we have to get over it. And I can say that I am much better than what I was a few months back. But then, you know what? We have to make it for ourselves, for the ones who actually truly do love us, our parents, our family. I see you have put a dog's pick in your profile, so I suppose you have a dog. Our pets need us, so it will take time
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 4:57
I'm taking medicines and all that and then my biggest medicine are these two little puppies, the little dogs that I have. They've stayed with me through thick and thin, went through the process of divorce. They were there, they've been through all of that. They hold on to me, they gave a check on me. So it's been beautiful and I try to give them the most of the happiness by taking them to the beaches every time I have a holiday
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Hey yuvi. That is so good to hear that you have taken off from work. Mental health should be the first priority no matter what. And it doesn't matter if you've resigned. You know. You know finances can be managed, right? And it doesn't make a big difference if you take a break for some time. It's absolutely okay. And it's so good to hear that you have two angels with you. And I have two angels too. They're both indies
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 2:39
Hello. So like you said about your two pets even I was so happy to hear that and the fact that you have indies I too have indies at home. Most importantly I did take a break from work by not telling the truth. So yeah, I mean I probably should have felt guilty about it but I'm not feeling guilty, I don't know why. I said the same thing to my counsel yesterday and she was okay about it so I'm taking that validation into account
Himanshi Thakur
@GreyMatter · 5:00
See, I know it's easier for me to say and difficult for you to do, I understand that. I live with my mother, who battles from anxiety from time to time too. So I get it that when you're going through so much shit in your life, it's difficult to see the rainbow. But sometimes you have to create your own rainbow
Yuvraj Jain
@yjain60 · 4:04
I have on a serious note, apart from the fact that I'm not doing a lot of yoga workouts that I used to do before, I do make sure I do my meditation and my prayers every day in the morning as much as possible so that I can keep myself fit. And eating habits have taken a hate. I have to start getting better there. I know I will. Right now, I'm not putting in any efforts, but I know I have to, and I will