You see, reaching done means you are tired of being tired of this person you are in a relationship with, or you are sick of being sick of a pattern of behavior that's in your life that is no longer serving you positively. You see, some people may view your actions as being dismissive, when in fact, it is all about choosing not to let negativity affect your peace of mind. In other words, you have had enough and there isn't anything wrong with being done. Mary J