When do you let go?
I'm actually more talking to myself because right now, Arizona no, right now, I'm in a journey of my life being a first time mother, being a wife, now being parentless. I am in a stage where I have to accept what is, and I have to let it go. And I have to have faith on what will be. Because when you continue to hold on to things that you really don't have control over, you will drive yourself crazy
Hello. Hello, Mrs. Asberry. I just stumbled upon your swell, your whole channel, and it it's pretty nice. You definitely have a beautiful way of presenting yourself, I have to say. Yeah. And everything seems so and almost so good. It's like you have to be reading all this, but I know by your flow that it's not and it's just flowing through you and that's so cool
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 4:41
I agree. It's important to well, keys to success is to understand and recognize that the only expectation that you can have is of yourself. You are not able to have expectations of other people, of other things, of a process. All you can do is show up and be present for the journey. And so the expectations that I have for myself and that I coach others on is who do you want to be? How do you want to occur in the environment?
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
So I'm definitely going to invite you to my future swells. Now, some of my swells may be a little risky, so I'm not even going to lie to you, especially once I get my husband on a few of them, but I look forward to listening to some of your swells as well as you listening to some of my future swells. And, yeah, you have a good rest of your day as well. And just for future reference, I am in Detroit
Like I mentioned to another user a second ago, that just preparing you. If you listen to any of my swells, some of them may be a little risque because I do kind of want to open up to another side and conversation. But definitely it was a pleasure listening to your response and I hope that you have a beautiful and blessed day and holiday coming and yeah, it was great speaking to you. Alright, bye
J.L. Beasley
@Her_Sisu · 1:10
Thank you so much. And it is pronounced her sisu. Sisu is a Finnish word for it describes the essence of being resilient. And what it means mean resilient, I should say. And what it means is tenacity and purpose, grit, determination, bravery and resilience. And so it's a way of being for the people in Finland that they identify with. And so it's like, Are you in sisu? I did a spin on that and did her C sue
Marley Musarra
@MarleyMusarra · 3:12
There is that serenity prayer that says, grant me the courage to I can't think of exactly how it goes right now, the blah blah, blah, to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. You know what I'm talking about, most likely
Zara Lisbon
@ZLisbon · 4:57
And because our families are friends and have always been friends, we've stayed friends even though life has taken us on very different journeys. And I think that's great. It's great that we can still have a connection after all these years when we see each other and be able to talk like sisters. But it's gotten to a point where my feelings are hurt too often, and that's because I keep telling myself that's because I let my feelings get hurt and I'm too sensitive
I haven't gotten to the stage of accepting it, and I'm still trying to figure out if I want to let go. But, yeah, so what my point was that I really want to thank you so much, Marley, for replying, because it was just destiny that I listened to your reply at this particular moment in my life, at this particular time
And I never was allowed to release it until years later. But my point is that I really just wanted you to think about that as well, just in the process of letting go, to allow that friend of 30 years know why you're letting go. I do think that in those type of long term friendships, we should allow closure, and it maybe can change your friend's life in quotation marks. You never know what it could do. So I did want to leave you with that