And the reason why is because it's so hard. Because you never know nowadays what people's real, true intentions are. And you're trying to open yourself up. You're trying to get out there and meet that person. However, once you've met that person that you really believe, this is the person that I need to deal with and roll with
And one guy, he was very direct in regards to some of the things that he was asking her and some of the questions that he was asking her. And I told her, hey, he's pretty much telling you he's looking for a wife. To some people, that's the red flag. But to me personally, in 2022, if you're speaking to a man that's actually not beating around the bush, he's really trying to understand who you are as a person indefinitely
But you haven't done the work within yourself or you haven't been shown what true love is, then another natural trait of humans, I think my personal opinion is self sabotage. We will absolutely just destroy it. I mean, you hear stories of all the times somebody's in a perfectly happy, loving, incredible relationship couldn't be happier and then a month later go and cheat on their partner because they don't think that they deserve that level of acceptance or that love
And it allows me now to look at it from a different set of eyes. And sometimes when we go through things in life and people do things to us, we always internalize it instead of maybe looking from the other side. And that's how I always go about everything. Honestly, I'll talk you through. My husband probably thinks I'm crazy sometimes because I'm not doing this. And then all of a sudden as I keep talking, I keep talking