I know it's been asked a million times, but just curious just from random people why they think people cheat or why did they cheat or why did someone around them cheat on a spouse? And were they really looking to stay in the relationship that they cheated on? Or were they really looking for something else? And why didn't you just leave? That's always my question. Why don't people just leave instead of cheating?
Hey, this is a beautiful and vulnerable swell and I appreciate you for being here, opening up, sharing and asking such a powerful question. I want to start by just saying I'm coming from decided the discussion where I've been cheated on. I've not been a cheater but I can say that from what I've studied and what I've observed from my experiential situations it's that most of the time people just don't have the values to understanding for the capacity of love
Even if you think there's no hope with couples that have pushed each other to the brink, you can come back. Yeah, this is a great question, and I do agree with you now, why don't they just leave? I agree. It would save so much hurt to just leave. This is not so much the act, it's the deceitfulness in so many ways. But I know that I had to go through it to be here with him now
Michael Slade
@Freshslade · 3:44
Hi V, thanks for this post because I love this openended question. Of course I think there are a whole host of reasons why people cheat. But the most common one I would think, in my opinion, would be that they were unfulfilled in some way and it could have been by the either partner or with themselves. And that's what I really want to make important