Try to control it and you will lose it. The wise, accepting things as they are, deface nothing, not seizing things. They do not lose them, while others, in their mad rush for wealth, are always chasing success, but coming up short to succeed. Be as attentive at the end of an enterprise as at the beginning. The wise do not desire what they do not possess. They learn to be unlearned. They attend to that which others ignore