Unpacking my fears; limiting beliefs
Which means I didn't want to project the things that I would have experienced on what their experience would be if they did what I did. I wanted my experiences to be used as a guide and not as something I used to govern their lives to tell them that, oh, you must do this because if you don't do this, then this will happen. Another one of the fears I have listed here is that nobody will be able to love me because of how damaged I am