Accepting your child for who they are, not who you want them to be.
Like, in my personal opinion, I think they have one up a lot of other children. So, again, it is important to go through that grieving process. Allow yourself the time. You know, I mean, it's just so. I cannot emphasize this enough, y'all, how important it is to love and accept these children for who they are. It strengthens every aspect, not only of your life, but their life as well