What are we going to do? He's never had me in my kid's head, but I always had him in mind. Does that make any sense? Can anybody relate? Am I wrong? Did I mess up? Like, my therapist basically told me years ago to never do that. If he doesn't want to be a part of the kids life, let it be. But I just never wanted to accept that. And I just always called them and put the kids on the phone