Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 4:53
How insecurities make us feel - ex. What kind of thoughts do fat people have
That is one of the points that people go to. I'm sure there are other things that people go, so I have no idea. This is one of my examples. And one more that your body shape isn't exactly to how is it perfect to the sample sizes in shops it really makes you feel anxious like you don't want to try things on because they won't fit and then it's just awkward for you and that's just really bad
Gauri Agarwal
@gauriAgarwal27 · 1:10
I know what people go through. I know what I have gone through because of my insecurities about going out, wearing this, wearing that, etc. To and what not. And I believe that people should not get in cetera because of what they are, how they look because it isn't in their hands. What is in their hands is being confident enough. Confident enough of what they have. Just be happy in what you are is the key
When you are ridiculed for the way you look at any given point and not just your growing up yours, but in adulthood as well, then it can lead to insecurity. It is very important that you try to become comfortable in your own skin and not let others judgements, no matter who they are. Even something like lack of intimacy can make you insecure. Try to evaluate yourself based on how much effort you put in, which is controllable rather than on the outcome, which is dependent on external factors
Hey Tanishka, first of all, I would like to say you that it was a great swell and I think you should not be insecure of yourself like your weight, and you should do what you love like if you'd like to play any sports and you should not think what others will think or that just be yourself and don't care how others think about you, how they say things about you. You just need to go with the flow
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:34
I think you just need to figure out a way to do better. I think that would help you better than judging yourself even more because there are a lot of people out there who will judge you, but you are the only one who can help yourself. So you should be open minded and try to help yourself. Your explanation was really great and I really loved it. Thank you so much for applying and saying all of that
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 0:30
Bishop, thank you so much for replying and thank you so much for the support. You know, I do try to not think about other people, but I think my own thoughts kind of come in my way. I think I'm the only one who's coming in my way am working on that. So thank you so much for the support. And yeah, I will take care of myself. Thank you so much. I'm glad that you replied
And it's not just about us girls sometimes it's about voice and literally seeing people commenting on the way a particular kid is behaving or is wearing. So when it comes to people, they got opinions on literally each and everything. Now I know it's better to say things and it's comparatively way easier to say these things rather than actually doing it
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:44
Instead of agreeing to do things that others want us to do, they just make us feel really empty at the end of the day. We did do something and it took away from our anxiety and securities. However, we would feel empty and unhappy at the end of the day by not doing something that we wanted to do what they wanted us to do. If it's something that you also want to do, I think that's fine
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 2:17
I don't see how others kind of judge children because they were children once and they probably did dumb things to however, they don't seem to reason with that and they just blindly judge everybody without seeing what they're going through, what they are, who they are, and how much it would impact them if these things are said to them. So, yeah, thank you so much for sharing how you felt about this
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 0:14
Key thank you so much for the appreciation. I hope you like my future spells as well so if you like anything do listen to them. So I once again thank you so much and thank you for listening. I hope you have a great day. Bye