This is the side of the story of the person who forget you, who was mad too. Now our side of the story. So first of all, I would like to share this quote that I think really explains everything in a very simplistic way forgiving and being forgiven, frees our souls and lightens our load
Shruti Singh
@Shruti_Singh · 1:58
That is not us to carry and it does not condone or excuse the behavior. It just separates you from it and allows you to move on, which is really important. Carrying on with the life. And as long as we hold on to the grudges in our heart, even if we tell people that we are over it, the truth is we are actually not
I think this is really great advice that you shared with us, because I think that so many people, you know, just hold grudges. And I think that that is, you know, not how it's hard to just, you know, hold on that anger for so long because I think it will make us miserable. And I think, as you mentioned, forgiveness is hard, but it is key to just trying to be happy and move on
Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you. Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting or excusing the harm done to you or making up with the person who caused the harm. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life and this was a great piece of advice. I don't think there will be anyone who will disagree with you. I completely agree with you and it was really grateful for to you
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 0:50
Shruti. Thank you so much for replying and I am glad you liked this film. And yeah, really, it is something that helps you to heal it very much because, you know, like, for example, you have gone away from that person, however, you cannot forgive them. And you keep on holding on to that feeling
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 1:10
Fiona, thank you so much for applying. And thank you. And I'm glad you liked what I said. And, yeah, it is a great advice for north. It is a great advice. And I understood that. And it was really great for me as well. Spend even if you have gone away from those people that hurt you and whom you hold a grudge against until unless you forgive them, until you decide that you want to move on, you don't care anymore
Tanishka Singh
@Tancy_0818 · 2:30
It's an act of learning how to move on from someone, how to let them go, let their faults go and let them have their own life and let yourself have your own life instead of overthinking everything, instead of overthinking all the hurt. That's what forgiveness is actually. And if you keep on feeling all of this sadness, like this anger, and you will start having such negative thoughts, you hate them. And hate is like a very negative feeling