This story time is like the epic fail. So it was on this dating app. This guy was we were talking for a couple of days. We had probably two phone calls. I don't remember his name, but I do remember how it all went down. So we met on that infamous app, the app that's advertised on TV everywhere. It's meant to be deleted, right? So we meet on that app, and the conversation was flowing. Like, we had constant communication
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 4:28
I'm not going to get into this entanglement because the way you're presenting it, you're clearly in a relationship and you don't want to get caught up. If you're really not with someone, you wouldn't be doing all this at all. So I was like, no. So what I ended up doing was this man was on this dating app, not the brightest of them all
Second, I'm really getting disappointed in online dating. Online dating is getting really bad. It's getting bad to the point where it's like you don't even have no hope for it anymore. Dating period. Now sounds like there's no way in the world you can actually date unless you literally allow God to bring that man into your life. And it's like, I am not married to my husband anymore, and I've healed or whatever. There's still some disappointments
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 4:52
And I did a couple of months ago this little post where a gentleman actually said that he tried online dating. He didn't like it. He did pray to God for a wife. And God sent him a wife. So there is hope. No need to stress ourselves out with these weirdos online the ones that are out there to deceive. So kudos to you for being accountable and doing what's best for you. Regarding deleting those apps, it takes a lot to do that
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 1:52
Hey, Oraida. I listened to this last night. I'm sorry. I'm just now getting back to responding to you on it. I've not tried online dating personally, so I have no experiences to share in that area. I don't have a problem with online dating. It's just something that I never felt comfortable doing myself. But I do understand the need for it because we live in a place, a place in life now where people's schedules are all over the place
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 4:02
For me, low effort is you want to pick up coffee but we're not even talking about you're not even planning the date. I'm a very traditional woman in a sense of a man should lead and comparing the previous dates that I have had, I have never had a coffee date in my life. Most men will plan the date. We go out to dinner or we go do something fun like an arcade or whatever, go bowling. It's not like the money