So all that love bombing that you got in the beginning, because that's pretty much what most people do, whether it's intentionally or intentionally showering with gifts and attention and affection, and your brain is high on love. Like you get hooked to that feeling to those endorphins being released. So you're looking at the whole interaction relationship, honeymoon phase through pink colored lenses. And even though it's so exciting to get to know someone, you don't want to have pink colored lenses
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 5:00
And it did shake something in me to work better on myself. So seeing people for who they are is not the coolest thing because you could sometimes be like, is there any good people out there? There are. But that's why you need proper judgment. You need discernment. Not falling for words of people, not falling for their gifts, just allowing time and seeing if their actions match or not. A lot of dating coaches say it takes twelve weeks to really get to know someone
