So this time around, you are who you're going to attract. And it's like you have to take time to heal, love yourself and not look at the season of singleness like it's a bad thing. There's always going to be a time of isolation and isolation. A lot of people take it in the wrong way. They're like, oh, I'm rejected or, there's nobody out there for me. And that's not true
I was really deep into thinking I can't get him out of my mind or whatever. So my question to you is, how do you go about something like that? Because I just find myself so infatuated with this person. Not because of his status or whatever. It's his characteristics. It's who he is as a man and just how he is. Now, I know social media has a way of having people portraying to be one thing they really isn't behind closed doors
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 4:41
So, you know, my question is do you find yourself in a position where you were already in a good headspace to be romantically talking to another person, especially online? I've done online dating and a lot of these fake accounts will reach out to me and it's just learning how to filter who the person is or whatnot. But it could happen to anyone. Even if you do the filtering, you cannot think about what you could have done different
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
This situation right here made me want to step away from social media. I'm literally for the rest of the year, I'm no longer getting on Instagram or Facebook or TikTok. I don't want to be on none of them because of what is happening. How people are just so wicked and so cruel to do that. But there are a way that I can get in contact with him and tell him what happened and be honest with him about it
Oraida Levi
@TalkswithOraida · 4:49
We fall in that category even though we're women and God knows if we desire a spouse or not, right? So before I was positioning myself to chase, and I'm not saying this is your case, but I'm telling you me, I had positioned myself to chase potential men that I wanted to date, right? And it would result in chaos or fake accounts talking to me, but I had to be in the mindset of saying, okay, God has a person for me