They lost who they are and they need to get back to finding out who they are and don't take anything out on anybody else. Life brings on many challenges and as long as you live on this earth you're going to have to face challenges. Good or bad, doesn't matter what condition you're in. That's just life. So just do like I'm doing, get off the world and just let it spin for a minute and after you get back on you'll feel much better