@tailored979
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 4:44

Going silent is the best punishment served ?

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That is completely agreeable. But what increases my concern is for those people who do something bad to us and then they give us the silent treatment. You know, the problem is that such kind of people make use of emotion. They know this that their silent behavior will aggravate the guilt in us most of the time. These people, I mean, they are those people who understand us very well

#silence #treatment #emotions # torture

@Pragati.chopra
Pragati Chopra
@Pragati.chopra · 3:47
Like you said, how are we supposed to deal with that kind of silent treatment? Because I really don't know in what ways to handle that's. Thank you so much. Bye
@tailored979
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 4:30

@Pragati.chopra

And when the other person is weaker in these emotions wherein we need to be strong, the other person gets more and more power. So instead of becoming vulnerable, we just need to take a bold decision. Go to that person, ask that person again. But after asking once come back, do not fall into this trap of I don't feel like that we should be running behind that person and agreeing to his or her terms and conditions. No, definitely not
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@Pragati.chopra
Pragati Chopra
@Pragati.chopra · 2:33
You don't understand what the other person might feel. I think they don't have empathy for others. And more important is that they have the strong tail. I think it's for self pity. And they have this and nobody understands, and then they'll showcase it in front of people like they are the ones who are the victims. So anyways, now I know how to deal with them. And I love the link you share between the Monroth and the kind of silent treatment we give
@tailored979
Meenu Kaur
@tailored979 · 0:49

@Pragati.chopra

Thank you. Pragati and just a small advice or whatever you can call it, as there is a very beautiful poem Keeping Quiet. That poem gives us the best description of what an introspection can do to us. And for doing that introspection how and when should we go into silence? S and I really appreciate and I'm really thankful that probably this little piece of advice has helped you. And I believe I love connecting with people and like minded people. I'm so happy
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