Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 4:47
Learning to develop your character instead of using marriage as a carrot
We all have our own unique potential and there's no doubt that desires are within us, just like fears, insecurities and other emotions. But it does not mean that one should use marriage as a carrot to move forward in life. Because if your growth or motivation depends on having a partner or being married to somebody or even social acceptance for that matter, then you will end up being exhausted, miserable and perhaps lonely
And in case you have kids all through the sake of society, you're ruining their lives too. Because you don't have your own priorities straight. Just because you marriage get married for the society and you just don't know how to navigate in a relationship. It's going to be really bad. So yes, like you said, marriage is not a carrot that you can just pick up and go. Marriage is a skill that you need to work on every single day
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 3:27
But they are a minority, like 20% probably. But most people, you see, they are either they lie about being happy in their marriage and they have a lot of issues going on, or they are deceiving each other, cheating on each other, or they are in separation and we are seeing that increasing day by day. This thing, of course, is the responsibility of not only the parents, but also the individual. Because you have to know yourself first. Destiny is another issue