Decision to never have children. I have been wondering what I would be as a father. Yes, I had parents who tried their best to give me a normal childhood, but I believe that the consequences had detrimental effects on my psyche and I don't wish to transfer that to my child. In fact, I believe that even marriage is an overrated institution. Since we are talking about a decision to never have a child or children, I just want to say that there is an aspect of destiny indeed
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 5:00
I once heard my mother say about my father that he would not be able to give love to a child whom they would adopt because they were thinking of adoption when they got married and they were not being able to achieve pregnancy. Feel that everybody is trying their best but one needs to be really not only a strong role model to live in this world but also as a person. Both the parents need to give the child the love that they need and parents usually live in denial. You know
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 5:00
I wonder what goes on when the child is in his mother s womb. He begins to absorb her emotions, not only hers, but whatever is going on in the mother's environment. So she is taking on other people's emotions as well. Plus there are so many other things just like the effects of medication or if there is a substance abuse or whatever
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 5:00
That's why you use social media. That's why you are listening to this conversation. You don't do anything else like that. We are getting pleasure or there's pain, which is very basic, right? So I know the conversation is probably going somewhere else but I really don't care. Now, I doubt that anybody is listening to this and I'm just talking to myself and I'm enjoying it anyway. So yeah, think about it. Think how are you different from other