And that's the only way, I hate to say it, it's the only way. You got to be capable. Competent. You know what that word is, right? Competent. Right? Able. Competent, strong, intelligent, powerful. All these words are associated, especially nowadays, with toxic masculinity and narcissism and all this crap that people have used, weaponized, basically to keep guys from becoming what you were meant to be, right?