You. I want to talk about refuge for moms. Do moms need a refuge? Of course. We have frustration, we have lack of patience at times. We're not a doubt how desperately we as moms need a refuge. A place of retreat and safety. When we have when we feel we have failed, when we have lost our last shred of control and shouted out our treasured child or even our children. When we selfishly refuge to help our husband because we wanted him to handle it