Was it Love or attachment or both (A LIE)
I don't know. It seemed like they almost coexist, you know what I mean? Almost coexist. But I know that for me, love is seeing what you can put into a relationship and attachment is seeing what you can get out. And everybody has different motives. But I like your opinion on what love and attachment is. And do you think that might have been a part of part of your life?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:59
Oh, my goodness. And when my Godmother, when she said to me, she said, you might have liked that man, she said, I don't have no doubt that you didn't like him. She said, he seems like a likable man. She said, but that's not why you married him. You didn't marry him because you loved him. You married him because you wanted what he offered, which we all know what grown folks do. And so it was an attachment
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 1:33
And I honestly believe that he loved me as much as he's able to love a person. I believe he loved me and I know that I loved him. But, yeah, that attachment. And, man, I'm going to be thinking about that all day. Attachment. This is a good one, Mike. Thank you. I might comment back on this one later today because I'm going to be thinking about this. This really has me thinking. Thank you
Marilyn Bloodworth
@ladyB521 · 4:55
Good morning, Mike, this is Lady B. I was listening to your conversation and I'm like, wow, I don't know, because basically I deal with experience of my own life. Only thing I can tell you from what I know in my own life, I met my husband, knew him maybe three months, but I knew in my spirit that this person was right and vice versa because he came after me, I didn't come after him
Is it mike a step process where it's kind of dwindling down because everybody stays past the expiration date. That's where all the pain comes from. And if I knew then what I know now, I would have just left when I know I should have left, dealt with the pain in instead of increasing it by a year or six months. Because I told her, I tried to talk, I said, look, I'm thinking about divorce and I want us to work this thing out
At least I'm not anymore. But it's a tough piece, and I'm telling you, I think they either flip in and out or it goes from one to the other. But if I had to choose one attachment, 100% for both of us, both of us has to be I mean, like the things like the alimony, the lies in the alimony, you know what I mean?
Moe Johnson
@NeophyteSavant · 4:56
She wants to hear that it's both of us, and it's not it. Anyway, it's just so much more that I'd like to say with this topic, but I'm going to leave it at that. Anyway, brother, thanks for inviting me. And I look forward to us chopping it up in some Moe healthy dialogues. Have a great one