How many unwritten contract have you signed
You I was thinking, and I had a question, and lately we've been, you know, we're talking about standards and a lot of talk about relationships and all that kind of stuff and what people expect and all these expectations. And then one was, how do you know when you're in love? And I gave an answer, you know, whatever, whatever I have at the moment. But how do you know when you're in a relationship?
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 5:00
What's going on? And then, okay, now we dating exclusively. Okay, so now we dating exclusively. We getting more involved. We're talking to each other about more things. We're sharing our lives with each other. We're doing all of that and then, okay, we didn't been doing that for a while. We didn't got that part unlocked. Now we've started talking about future things and stuff like that. Okay, what are we doing?
I'll never understand why I guess it took so long, you know what I mean, for it to sink in and then going through this regular life on life term stuff, that where I couldn't be comfortable in a relationship. But yeah, that unwritten contract is no joke. No joke. But thank you for your response. I appreciate
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 4:04
And if people are not able to have the conversation with you, then that's a good indication of where they're supposed to be in your life. So, again, thank you. Good topic. Thank you for inviting me
Andrea Piggue
@Andrea_Speaks · 3:59
And the days and weeks after, I would lay in bed crying silently, and he never would put his arms around me. And so that was an expectation that wasn't met. But I know from myself that I probably should have said, you can't do that right now, or when we got home, like, babe, I need you to hold me. So that was an expectation that was not met, because I didn't voice it
Tanya Coles
@MsColes77 · 2:49
So many women leave these relationships or situationships broken hearted, disappointed, embarrassed, and angry because they invested before they got a commitment. You don't invest before you commitment. If there's no commitment on the table, then there's nothing for me to invest. That's it. And so a lot of these women leave these relationships because they've made all these investments in someone who was not invested in them. So to answer your question, we're too old to be doing this
For me, it was hard for me because I was just happy to be with somebody, so I didn't want to spend nobody around. Some people don't have the communication skills, and some are just like, that's just the way it is, and that's just the way it always will be. Once you're intimate with me, we together and that's it. So I don't don't know. But I know better now