Pull yourself up by your bootstraps. And in my college class I ask this question if you could be guaranteed $100,000 by the age of 40 in your chosen career by doing it yourself, or guaranteed $100,000 by age 25 in your chosen career by asking for help, which would you choose? Everything is Waiting for you your great mistake is to act the drama as if you were alone, as if life were progressive and cunning crime with no witness to the tiny hidden transgressions. Thanks, my friend