Hi, you guys. What's up? I'm back again with the swell to all of you. Well, I honestly don't want to keep this as just an articulation or something. I really want to ask you out a question or something in here. So it's going to be super short. It's gonna be just one question of which I'm going to ask you all out here. That is
Taha Abbas
@taha_oracle · 2:24
And there are very few people I've seen who are always so composed. I would love to learn from you all and let's hope this conversation goes a long way. Take care
Esha Prakash
@Paradox_Knight · 2:39
And so we need to accept that, okay, this is how they are reacting, and that's just who they are. So that can sort of bring down the level of hurt and anger into something less prominent, like, say, disappointment, which is fine, which is healthy. I mean, it's natural to be even angry if you're angry with someone. It's natural, but it can get unhealthy for us
Samreen Faiz
@samreen · 0:56
And I will be surely keeping in more interactive sessions for us so that these thoughts building upon in our head is much more not that worth it. If you could come out here and speak about it, that's much more worth it and that's much more makes sense. So, yeah, kudos to us. And yeah, it's just great in here. I am loving the space so much that, trust me, I have been joined on swell since the time I've got free
Samreen Faiz
@samreen · 1:50
So I personally feel like at the end of the day when you have a combined with your book and you're of just calming yourself down, it makes no sense with whatever the fights were for. So let's just keep it calm and let's just keep going and yeah, I completely agree with you. Let's see how this conversation keeps going. So yeah, cheers to all of us
Georgie Dee
@GeorgieDee · 1:49
Like just working out with the other person until I calm right down. Lots of swearing, lots of shouting, wandering around the house like a mad woman. But nobody is impacted. Just the car and the house. Here's an example. Seriously, Karen? Seriously. Did you really think that was a good idea? I mean, what sort of idiotic logic got you to the point where you thought that would be a good idea and that I wouldn't mind? No, it's fine
The problem is that whenever the anger comes up, rather than us understanding that anger has only come for us to make us feel more powerful, because somewhere deep down we are feeling weak, powerless. So the anger comes up so that we don't feel powerless, I hope I'm able to explain what it is, the very core, the very basic, the very roots of it. Okay? So it's okay to sit with that anger, to let it settle
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Bob Muckleroy
@greatwhitehype · 1:19
Whereas if it was somebody else that was more confident and they showed that people will tend to back down or back away shy from being angry or aggressive towards somebody. So I think managing anger is just based upon the person and the situation. It's all situational. Good question