You. How many times have you been told that you should start praying? Or maybe your prayers aren't, quote unquote, accepted because you're a girl or a woman and your past mistakes are brought up and the people who love to play God in your lives are initially the ones who put us in the path of trauma and depression in the first place. I too have faced similar situations and have realized these statements are nothing more than gaslighting and manipulation in the name of religion