People demeaning your pain, push you further when you are already falling
Ask me why I am sad and what can we do to make me feel better and same I will do for that person. But instead, if I say I'm sad, he's going to be like, yeah, I'm also sad, or I'm in a worse condition. I mean, we're not in a competition, we are not in a business deal that if I say something to you, you're going to be the person who has to balance it by saying something
Aishani Chatterjee
@Aishani · 4:24
Whenever you talk about yours, when you talk about something that's irking you, bothering you, or causing you a lot of sadness, a lot of frustration or pain, they bring up things which are causing them frustration and sadness and whatever it is, according to them. And at the end of the day, the entire conversation becomes about them. And that is so frustrating
ashmi dewan
@ashmi.dewan · 0:40
And later on, after a few months, I did tell her about this. So now you're good. But I think it's better to stay away from things and people who can bring you down more. If you don't need that energy right now, certainly