Take a deep dive and in many cases turn upside down completely beyond any chances of recovery. So when we start assuming, we stop growing both internally and spiritually. The more we overthink, the faster we SAP the life out of the bond we share with someone. So what is a way out? The way out? To save many a relationship isn't very difficult as it appears to expect one of the partners to understand and act on his or her own is completely impractical and somewhat unrealistic to
But at the end of the day the goal should be to keep the relationship going if it really matters to you. And in order to do that you need to at times see things from your partner's perspective and just understand where they are coming from and act accordingly. Because I think that is the key to the relationships that last long that lasts for years or decades. Because every human being can slip at times, every human being can become irrational at times